Dog Training at Home – Guide and Lessons

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Dog Pre-Training Basics



If you have a young puppy, we recommend that you wait until he’s at least 8 weeks old to begin formal training.

Before you begin the formal training lessons with a dog of any age, please plan to follow these keys to success:

  • Be patient. Each dog is unique, and can only learn at his own pace. Some dogs learn quickly; others take more time. Patience is indeed a virtue when it comes to effective dog training!

  • Be kind. This goes hand-in-paw with “Be patient.” Don’t lose your temper if your dog doesn’t “get it” right away, or appears to be ignoring you. Please do not punish your dog for not learning quickly enough. As a matter of fact, don’t punish your dog at all. (We’ll be teaching you effective ways to stop or prevent inappropriate behavior—without punishment.)

  • Be flexible. If your dog is struggling to learn, be willing to change your training routine. The location may be too distracting. The time of day may be too close (or far from) feeding time. The length of your training session may be too long (or too short). The training exercises may need to be broken down into smaller, simpler steps. Remember, each dog is unique. Be flexible and willing to do whatever you can to help your dog succeed.

  • Be generous. Be generous with your rewards and your time. Always reward your dog’s correct responses generously. Don’t be stingy with the treats—he’s worked hard and deserves a generous reward! And commit ample time to your training lessons. We’re all busy these days, but this is “quality time” for you and your dog. You’ll both enjoy and benefit from the lessons, so make sure your schedule is adjusted accordingly!


One of the biggest keys to success with positive reinforcement training is rewarding your dog properly. This means giving him something he loves at exactly the right moment.

Your first task is to figure out what kind of reward will best motivate your dog.

Food Treats

All dogs are unique individuals. Most dogs are motivated by food that tastes and smells good to them. Food treats can be very small, which is handy for keeping them in your pocket or a pouch to use during training—and important to maintaining your dog’s caloric intake to healthy levels. So that’s the form of reward we’ll be using throughout this training.

Be sure what you’re giving your dog is good for him. But don’t rely on the packing of store-bought treats to tell you “Your dog will love it!” Strong-smelling meat and cheese treats are usually winners, but many store-bought treats are made primarily of other ingredients. Your dog may not appreciate artificial colors, tastes or smells.

Small morsels of cooked chicken are a popular homemade treat. But keep in mind that what motivates other dogs may not motivate yours. Experiment and find out what he loves to eat.

Non-Edible Rewards

What if your dog isn’t motivated by food (rare, but a possibility)? You’ll have to find something else that motivates him. You may think a couple of pats on the head are a great reward, but your dog may not. He might not even like it (most dogs don’t)! ​​ Try scratching his belly or some other form of petting. ​​ Again, experiment to find out what your dog loves.

Another form of reward to consider is play. Tossing a ball, playing tug-of-war, or playfully chasing your dog for a few minutes may be his idea of heaven.

The Best Reward

Let your dog show you what he truly loves. He’ll do this with his reaction to the reward you offer. You just need to pay attention to how he responds. Just because he accepts a piece of kibble doesn’t necessarily mean he loves it. Watch him carefully when you’re giving him a treat, petting, or playing with him. If he looks away or walks away, he probably isn’t all that thrilled about what you’re offering. But if he gets excited, stays close and begs for more, he’s showing you that he loves it and will be willing to work for that reward in the future.

For initial training, we highly recommend using a food treat as the reward. It’s the easiest to work with and gets the fastest results…just make sure your dog really likes it!


After you figure out the form of reward, the second key to positive reinforcement is timing. This is critical during early training: you must give the reward immediately after your dog performs the correct action. This means within half-a-second! Your response to his correct action must be clear and it must be instant. If you pause in stunned amazement that he actually did something right, then snap out of it and give him a treat several seconds later, you’ve blown it. You must train yourself to deliver instant gratification to your dog. Do this consistently, and you’ll be amazed at how quickly your dog learns.

Here’s another important tip about timing: don’t make your training lessons too long. Like humans, dogs can become bored by repetition. Bored students don’t learn very well. So to keep the training sessions effective, don’t make them outlast your dog’s attention span. Each dog is different, so you’ll need to be alert and notice when his attention starts wandering. Try for a 10-minute session and see how that goes. Shorten it if necessary. Don’t lengthen it to more than 15 minutes. Repeating a short session two or three times a day will be much more effective than having one long session each day.

Primary and Secondary Reinforcements

The instant reward you and your dog choose will be your primary reinforcer. A primary reinforcer is something your dog inherently loves. In other words, he was born loving it (treats, tummy rubs).

Another form of reward is known as a secondary reinforcer. A secondary reinforcer is something your dog must learn to love and be motivated by. Praise is an excellent example. Puppies are not born loving a phrase such as “Good girl!” After all, it’s just noise to them. They must learn to associate that noise with love.

A popular form of secondary reinforcement is clicker training. A clicker is a handheld device that makes a distinctive clicking sound. That sound is basically a substitute for verbal praise. When used properly, your dog will learn to associate the clicking sound with love. We prefer using verbal praise versus a clicker, simply because your voice is something you’ll always have with you. If you prefer to use a clicker, just remember to mentally substitute “click” when the lessons say verbal praise or “Good!”

Consistency is Key

Regardless of whether you use your voice or a clicker, the most effective way to train your dog is to use a combination of primary and secondary reinforcers that are consistent.

If you’ll use your voice instead of a clicker, choose a phrase and use it exactly and consistently. Dogs are not people, remember? Words are just noise to them. They have no idea that “Good girl,” “Great job,” “Way to go Molly” or other phrases all mean they did the right thing. ​​ Pick your praise phrase, and make sure you (and others in your family) use that exact phrase or word every single time.

Then, several times a day, say your praise word or phrase and immediately give your dog the primary reinforcer (such as the treat you know he loves).

Do about five repetitions, two or three times a day, for two days. You can also use your praise word or phrase when rubbing her belly, when she’s eating his dinner, or any other time you’re sure she’s enjoying something she loves. Within a few days, she’ll learn to love the secondary reinforcer (the praise phrase or word) and will be eager to hear you say it.

(Throughout the training course we’ll use the example of “Good,” but substitute your own choice of secondary reinforcer. Remember to use it—and only it—consistently.)

During early training, the combination of the primary and secondary reinforcers will be extremely powerful and effective… more so than using either form of motivation alone.

Treats Won’t be Needed Forever

Don’t worry that you’ll have to carry treats around in your pocket all the time to get your dog to behave. As your dog learns, her obedience will eventually become habitual. You won’t need to consistently use treats or other primary reinforcers for those behaviors beyond that point. (You’ll need to use them consistently whenever teaching something new, though.) It will always be a good idea to continue using the secondary reinforcer (“Good!” or whatever). You’re basically thanking your dog for doing what you asked… simple common courtesy is always a good thing!

We’ll tell you when you can start decreasing the use of treats or other primary reinforcers. But for now, and whenever you’re teaching your dog something new, be sure to use both forms of positive reinforcements as instructed.

OK, now that you know the basics of rewards and timing, you’re ready to begin training your best friend!

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Why Training Your Dog Could be the Best Thing You Can Do for Your Pet

Most dogs enjoy listening and are proud of the knowledge and skills they acquire. Untrained dogs are seldom as happy as trained ones, and lead much less interesting lives. Many dogs also get a sense of security from obedience and discipline, especially the more intelligent ones.


Every observant dog owner can see for himself that his dog gets greater satisfaction from the praise rewarding a well- executed command or good behavior than he does from the momentary excitement of disobeying, which is usually followed by the evident guilt feelings, (ears back and avoiding eye contact), even when he has not been punished.


Owners vary in their training talents just as dogs vary in their trainability. Some people are born animal trainers and accomplish remarkable results with little effort. But even the best trainers are seldom equally successful with every breed of dog. The training procedures that are highly successful with one type of dog may be totally ineffective with another.


A basic mental affinity, even a certain type of personality seems to be necessary when training a dog. All good trainers possess authority, patience, and self-control. Brilliant ones possess an additional indefinable "x" quality that is probably a combination of love and respect.


Dog training techniques have been so well systematized in recent years that the least gifted owner can achieve reasonable good results with effort, persistence, patience, and understanding. Dogs have a much higher understanding intelligence than most people give them credit for. They can and do learn, but we have to give them our time and patience.


All pet dogs should be given basic obedience training as a matter of course, and not only when they develop bad behavior. Today’s dogs live in a much faster paced world, just as we do. Even though we may be with them when they are out in public, they can still "stray" or disobey. While training cannot completely compensate for poor breeding, a bad environment, or poor upbringing, it can surely help. They world will teach them how to misbehave, but it's up to us as pet parents to teach them how to behave.

Specialized training isn't necessary unless the dog is to perform or be seen, such as the purebred show dogs. This level of training and behavior requires much more time and labor and usually requires a higher aptitude on the part of the dog, and much more skill and patience on the part of the trainer. Training of so called "champion" show dogs usually begins when they are puppies and continues through most of their lives.


Training your dog at home in the basics of behavior and communication with you can be very rewarding. What you may lack in experience, equipment, facilities, etc. is usually compensated for by your dogs desire to please the person he loves and lives with, which is his strongest motivation.

I hope you’ve enjoyed these free dog training tips.


What are your experiences and recommendations for dog training? Please leave your comments or questions below.



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  • Hi, I have 3 dogs and all except one did not need much poddy training but he eventually caught on. Now a year later he sometimes pees in a certain corner of the kitchen. I have tried many things but nothing works, do you have any suggestions?

    • Tammy

      Thank you for the question. Sounds like he’s trying to mark his territory. I would get some Nature’s Miracle to get rid of the scent. They tend to go back to where they can smell themselves. It might be in the nooks and crannies even though you cleaned up. The Nature’s Miracle will get rid of it completely. You might also try to retrain or recondition him to going outside or on a pad. I had a female dog do this before. She just needed a training reminder of “where” to go. It’s best if you can catch him in the act. You could clap your hands real loud or do something to startle him. There could also be an underlying health problem. Hope this helps! 🙂

  • If I ever get a dog again that is not already potty trained, I will definitely come back for more. Great post!

  • Hi Tammy,

    Great post. You are so thorough and in depth with your posts. You really should be the number one guru for all things dogs! And hopefully you will be soon 🙂

    I haven’t had a dog for a few years but I pass your articles on to my daughter. She loves dogs. I love the pics you use to. I know my daughter will take all these tips on board.

    Thanks and keep on doing what you do. You do it so well!


  • Very interesting point on number 3 above, be flexible. I never really thought about training around feeding time with a pet. An analogy I might make is that when my sons gets home from school, he has to have a snack before he starts homework otherwise it’s kind of a lost cause. I agree 100% that consistency is key. One question I have for you, our dog tends to listen to me more than my wife. Is that typical? Does one person usually have more command? I am anxious to read your post about potty training. Our dog is older and she still has accidents at times.

    • Tammy

      Hi Steve, yes that is common. Your dog sees you as the “alpha” dog or leader of your family. With more training or conditioning with your wife, your dog will start to listen to her better. Just need to be consistent. Thank you for the question.

  • Penelope

    I didn’t know about the secondary reinforcers but that makes a lot of sense – you don’t want the dog getting obese in the process of training him! And I like the point that trained dogs have more interesting lives/are more in synch with owners, than untrained dogs. Never thought of it that way. are some breeds harder to train than others?

    • Tammy

      Hi Penelope, yes some breeds are harder and need more patience and some just have a slower learning curve. These dogs will need more repetition and more work. The smartest dogs are Border Collies and pickup commands quick. I’ve had fast and slow learners. Thanks for the question.

  • Ronnie Jordan

    Great article I must say. A trained dog is the greatest. They are extremely smart and if you take your time as you mentioned and show them love they give it right back 10 fold. I learned some things here for if I ever get a puppy. I loved the praying dog in the picture.

  • Hi Tammy, I super love this article. As a dog lover myself, reading through your tips makes me want to start re-training my dogs. I used to train them but with work and family stuff, it didn’t become a priority anymore. Now, as 2018 is just kicking off, it made me think to start again. I appreciate your article for inspiring me again =) Super thanks =)

  • Michael Howell

    I can see that dog training is a science — and must be studied as such. We cannot afford to reinvent the wheel. We must do our homework.

    For example, some things are counterintuitive. Once such thing is as the minuscule time window for the dog to associate praise with the right behavior.

    By the way, thank you for reminding us to pick treats that our dogs really love!

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